If you are here it is because you are going through one of the most difficult things any man has to face, a divorce. Depending on where you are at in your divorce process, you may feel confused, lost, blindsided and lack a vision or plan where to go next. You may have been looking for support and were dismayed to find that there was a dearth of men-specific divorce recovery options. Men, unfortunately, suffer in silence during the aftermath of a divorce. Having access to a licensed professional can be invaluable at this time. It is not uncommon to feel guilt, confusion, fear, shame, suicidal ideations or thoughts even if you have never struggled with those thoughts it in the past. You do not have to go through this alone.
You may have questions such as:
What went wrong?
Is it possible to get her back?
What do I do next?
How do I maintain a good relationship with my children?
How is it that my wife has moved on so quickly?
Why won’t she believe that I can be different?
Therapy with me is focused on guiding you through a tailor-made plan that is specific to the needs you have as you go through this difficult process. There are several steps to take on this journey to recovery.
1. Stabilization of Emotions
2. Identification of Areas of Growth
3. Repairing the Relationship With Yourself
4. Creating a Vision for the Future
I will be your guide helping you process your emotions as well as acting as an accountability partner to make sure that you reach your goals. On a more personal note, my divorce was the most difficult thing I had ever faced in my life. I found myself searching on the internet for support. I was the victim of many scams promising to “help me win her back” or “change your life with this one simple tip”. No one had the knowledge or the expertise to assist me. They all were preying on the fact that I was in a vulnerable place in my life. After my recovery, I wanted to be able to provide the same to others. Allow me to provide a space for you to process your emotions and come up with a plan. This can be the worst or the best thing that has ever happened to you in your life. The difference is going to be how you choose to handle it and it is ok if you need help. Contact me here for your free initial consultation.